How Our Community Was Created

She Lost Her First True Love

Growing Up Fast

It’s safe to assume in most cases that a girl’s first love is her dad. Dads usually teach young girls what they need to know so they enter the real world prepared, especially when it comes to “boys”. Unfortunately, I didn’t get to experience my dad as my first true love because he was in jail for robbing a bank. Even though I had an older brother, he wasn’t my dad. So as a teenager, I went looking for love on the “streets”. Little did I know my teenage years would be cut short.

I got pregnant at 16.

I was once part of the 70 out of 100 African American teens whose lack of communication between parents ended in teenage pregnancy. My father has been in jail my entire life. So, there were things I didn’t learn that most present fathers teach their daughters. I think the hardest part about being a teenage mom is bringing up a child as a child who does not know what to do with the child she chose to birth as a result of an unplanned pregnancy. I knew it was time for me to grow up sooner than I planned. So, I went from living life as a teenager with no independence to raising children as a teenager with great responsibility. I had to grow up extremely fast.

“She’s Too Young. Do Not Be Like Her!”

This is what parents normally say to girls when young couples are flirting or when adults are making love on a TV show. Such words could also turn into “You are a disgrace!” and “How filthy of you!”, which does not make our situation any better.

I was lucky I had a supportive mom. Every night, she volunteered to care for my baby so I could sleep. But my journey was not easy. Society was cruel. My baby and I got called “monkey” by my schoolmates, and the teachers constantly talked behind my back. I had to act tough, but it was difficult for a sixteen-year-old teenage mom.

Inaction Kills Dreams

Early pregnancy takes up a huge part of a teenager’s life. Some had to quit school and look for a job. Others had to engage in illegal activities out of helplessness and lack of financial independence.

The Women’s Fund of Central Ohio showed that only one-third of teen mothers obtain a high school diploma. And children of teen mothers are also less likely to complete high school and have lower performance on standardized tests. It does not stop there. Women are also more likely to struggle in raising a child alone, compared to men. The Center for Community Solutions reported that female-headed households are more than twice as likely to live in poverty compared to male-headed households. And we see greater disparities for children because they are five times as likely to be poor as children in married-couple households, and more than twice in male-headed households.

If the government gives lesser and lesser regard, more women will enter adulthood uneducated, jobless, and poor. But nobody wants that because women have dreams! One could be our next president in the United States. One could be a disaster relief volunteer. One could be a scientist discovering a historical breakthrough. One could be the next Oprah Winfrey, making significant changes to millions of people’s lives. The possibilities are just endless!

All they need is someone to believe in them through women's improvement. And this is where we take action.

Let’s Transform Women’s Lives!

Women to Woman is a non-profit organization that prepares young women to live out their purpose and give back to the community. We provide peer mentorships where women with lived experiences join forces with young girls in healing past traumas. We also partner with local schools and community colleges to help them secure their GED/HSE and build their own career paths with confidence.

Moreover, we teach them the power of controlling their personal wealth towards financial independence.

I built this organization because I see a world where more women are introspective, self-nurturing, and confident.

Teenage pregnancy is not a disease. And I want teenage moms to realize that they have a beautiful life ahead of them. And with your help, we can make that happen.

Women To Woman

WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU!

Email: [email protected]

Phone: 937-375-9156

Toll-Free: 888-312-3614​

Women to Woman is a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization. EIN/Tax ID #32-0556338​

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How Our Community Was Created

She Lost Her First True Love

Growing Up Fast

It’s safe to assume in most cases that a girl’s first love is her dad. Dads usually teach young girls what they need to know so they enter the real world prepared, especially when it comes to “boys”. Unfortunately, I didn’t get to experience my dad as my first true love because he was in jail for robbing a bank. Even though I had an older brother, he wasn’t my dad. So as a teenager, I went looking for love on the “streets”. Little did I know my teenage years would be cut short.

I got pregnant at 16.

I was once part of the 70 out of 100 African American teens whose lack of communication between parents ended in teenage pregnancy. My father has been in jail my entire life. So, there were things I didn’t learn that most present fathers teach their daughters. I think the hardest part about being a teenage mom is bringing up a child as a child who does not know what to do with the child she chose to birth as a result of an unplanned pregnancy. I knew it was time for me to grow up sooner than I planned. So, I went from living life as a teenager with no independence to raising children as a teenager with great responsibility. I had to grow up extremely fast.

“She’s Too Young. Do Not Be Like Her!”

This is what parents normally say to girls when young couples are flirting or when adults are making love on a TV show. Such words could also turn into “You are a disgrace!” and “How filthy of you!”, which does not make our situation any better.

I was lucky I had a supportive mom. Every night, she volunteered to care for my baby so I could sleep. But my journey was not easy. Society was cruel. My baby and I got called “monkey” by my schoolmates, and the teachers constantly talked behind my back. I had to act tough, but it was difficult for a sixteen-year-old teenage mom.

Inaction Kills Dreams

Early pregnancy takes up a huge part of a teenager’s life. Some had to quit school and look for a job. Others had to engage in illegal activities out of helplessness and lack of financial independence.

The Women’s Fund of Central Ohio showed that only one-third of teen mothers obtain a high school diploma. And children of teen mothers are also less likely to complete high school and have lower performance on standardized tests. It does not stop there. Women are also more likely to struggle in raising a child alone, compared to men. The Center for Community Solutions reported that female-headed households are more than twice as likely to live in poverty compared to male-headed households. And we see greater disparities for children because they are five times as likely to be poor as children in married-couple households, and more than twice in male-headed households.

If the government gives lesser and lesser regard, more women will enter adulthood uneducated, jobless, and poor. But nobody wants that because women have dreams! One could be our next president in the United States. One could be a disaster relief volunteer. One could be a scientist discovering a historical breakthrough. One could be the next Oprah Winfrey, making significant changes to millions of people’s lives. The possibilities are just endless!

All they need is someone to believe in them through women's improvement. And this is where we take action.

Let’s Transform Women’s Lives!

Women to Woman is a non-profit organization that prepares young women to live out their purpose and give back to the community. We provide peer mentorships where women with lived experiences join forces with young girls in healing past traumas. We also partner with local schools and community colleges to help them secure their GED/HSE and build their own career paths with confidence.

Moreover, we teach them the power of controlling their personal wealth towards financial independence.

I built this organization because I see a world where more women are introspective, self-nurturing, and confident.

Teenage pregnancy is not a disease. And I want teenage moms to realize that they have a beautiful life ahead of them. And with your help, we can make that happen.

Women To Woman

WE WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU!

Email: [email protected]

Phone: 937-375-9156

Toll-Free: 888-312-3614​

Women to Woman is a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization. EIN/Tax ID #32-0556338​

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